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Friends, family and community members packed the McGregor High School gymnasium to honor Mark Root, who was shot to death as he sat by a fire pit on Saturday, September 13.
The message from Mark’s oldest son Jake at the funeral was one of forgiveness. “I had the privilege of going down to pick up Jake from college,” said Dennis Meyer who was the officiant at the funeral. “I wanted to see how he was doing. We hadn’t traveled very far down Interstate 35 and Jake said, ‘We have to forgive John [Brightman]. Dad would have.’”
Jake was talking about the man who took his father’s life, that of another friend, Jaime Gage, and then his own.
Dennis then shared how important it was for the family to forgive and not hold on to bitterness, resentment or anger. “When Jake said, ‘We have to forgive,’ that means all of us,” added Dennis. “It is the key to unlocking the future. If you want to honor Mark, then forgive.”
Taking a closer look at the importance of honor, Dennis continued to remind the entire audience of the importance of honoring this father.
“The first commandment in the Bible has a promise to go with it, Honor your mother and your father that it may go well with you . . . and we are going to honor your father,” Dennis promised Mark’s children. “There is no greater honor than we can give Mark today, than to agree as a people that we are going to take care of his greatest treasures [Jake, Jessica and Kyle].”
Most agree that what happened at that fire pit was awful, and it is very difficult to forgive such a thing, and how could this happen?
“The immediate question is why would GOD do this?” added Dennis. “Well, HE didn’t do this.”
Denny shared that God did not create us to be robots and nothing happens on this earth unless God allows it. “God allows mankind to make choices,” he said.
Denny went on to remind Jake, Kyle and Jessica that they have a heavenly father who will never leave them. “Never, ever. But man has choices, and we make choices,” Denny added. “The choices we make aren’t always the wisest or the best.”
Friends and family pay their respects
Mark’s brother Jason thanked everyone for attending the funeral and wanted to share how much he loved his older brother. “He was extremely genuine,” Jason said. “Our family is a little bit different. Our Root blood is strong, and I am very proud of my family.”
Jason asked if anyone in the audience had been to a basketball game with Mark. “There were a few times that he argued with the referees, but I tell you what, he supported these kids and this school.”
Jason also talked about Mark’s neatness or his attention to details. “Even in the work place. Any tool that was out of place went right back to its place,” he said. “He took good care of everything he owned. I don’t know if it is a Root trait or not.”
“He was a father that dedicated everything to his children,” concluded Jason. “I looked up to him.”
Mark’s youngest son, Kyle, felt compelled to share his appreciation for his father. He wanted everyone to know how much he loved his father. “He was always there for us, and we want to be here for him,” Kyle said. “I love him very much, and I miss him.”
Mark’s sister Rhonda shared her memories through a sign language interpreter. Rhonda has been deaf since birth. She recalled Mark coming to get her to bring her home when she was at the Minnesota School for the Deaf. She also talked about the letters Mark wrote when he was in the military.
Honoring Mark’s service to his country
In honor of Mark, the VFW Post #2747 presented the family with the flag he served under. Darrel Olson, the acting commander presented Mark’s oldest son Jake with the flag.